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Okay, so I live in a little podunk town in Northern California and the guys my age… well I grew up with all of them. When you have seen a guy in diapers, when he was little of course and picking his nose as he grew up, he’s not really a big turn on. When all the guys in town have grown up with you, that means they probably saw you pick your nose at some point in life too. In my small town dating someone else from town is kinda like going out with your brother, not going to happen! So what, do I have to become a nun? Again, not going to happen. So my options were pretty limited if I wanted to find a man which I certainly did. A friend told me she was “doing the dating online thing”.

At first I thought this girl has done lost her mind. But then when I saw the guys she was talking to, I was ready to sign up. She told me to try KissCafe.com, I’ll just say, “yee haw, I am so glad I did”. With in a week I had found about 20 guys that were not only hot, but they had brains, jobs, personalities. Now I’m not “loose” online or off. But a girl has to look the menu over pretty good before ordering. So the next couple of weeks I chatted with several people and made some really good friends. There’s 1 extra special friend who I spend most of my time with, and there’s a great chance the rest of my life will be spent with him.

I’ll never make fun of dating online again. KissCafe.com and their awesome dating online site has changed my life forever. Whether you’re Big City or Podunk, give it a shot. You just might find everything you’ve dreamed of and much more than you ever expected.

It is true that we face, ever increasing, difficulty when searching for that one true love. We hope it will find us. We watch it happen, over and over, on television. The story books boast it. There are couples every where we turn. But was it really that easy? Did love really just fall into their laps? It is hard to say, but I can vouch for one fact. There are more singles out there, than it seems. It isn’t that they are hiding. It is that the world has become so big, and more people are staying home to shop, and do regular daily activities, that we are losing the opportunities to “accidentally” run into them. This causes our chances to drop dramatically. This means, that the singles that are out looking are in the clubs and other social situations, but if you are off by just a minute, then you could miss the person of your dreams all together. It makes the dating scene look pretty bleak.

Once again, I will say that the singles are out there. But more and more they are turning to the on-line dating scene. It is safer and more relaxed to browse from home. you don’t need to go on that devastating blind date, before you know anything about the person. We are able to see, hear, and read all about the prospect, before we ever even have to meet them. This takes a lot of the risk, and eliminates it all together. the singles on dating sites are not just the desperate who can’t find a date, they are the wise, who want to shop before they buy. If you have ever been on a blind date, or embarrassing first date, then you can appreciate this fact. You deserve to find the best. Shop safely.

After dating a few different people over a period of a couple months I got tired of the waiting game. I finally decided to take matters into my own hands. I wanted to find someone that I could feel truly comfortable with and be myself around. I had considered dating online so I set out to find a dating website where I could seek out my match. After only a couple of weeks of dating online a guy named Victor sent me a message through had joined site. Once I looked at his profile I realized that we had some stuff in common. His profile said he liked hiking, cats, photography, cooking and sushi which I like too. I wrote him back and we started e-mailing shortly after that.

Eventually we ended up chatting through instant messenger and that was when I started to see how truly special he was. It was unbelievable how much we had in common. We had a lot of the same dreams and goals. He wanted to move to Maui just like I did. He wanted to have to have a farm just like a did. Both of us had grown up in the same area too which was a coincidence I suppose.

We talked online or on the phone almost every day for about 3 months. After 3 months of dating online we decided that we just had to see each other in person. I was living near San Francisco and he was living in San Diego so we decided that he should come meet me in San Francisco. The nervousness and excitement of having to wait to see him was overwhelming. I was so happy when the day finally arrived. I met him at a sushi restaurant for lunch the day that his flight came in and he showed up with a dozen red roses. I felt like we clicked instantly. The next day we met up again and went on a boat to Sausilito to have lunch again. We ended up staying there until sunset and then riding the ferry back to eat dinner in the city. I fell in love with my husband that day. I am ever so grateful that I gave dating online a try.